Lovely, Lo! Ive never seen the Descendant explained so clearly or succinctly before. his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. Is this a synastry, Ariel? I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. I know somebody whose Moon conjuncts his Dejanira (30 minutes). His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. lol. Isis Conjunct the Vertex. When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. woman s Dejanira and Juno, ( 445 and 432 Scorp ) both conjunct mans Eros and Chiron, (510 Scorp, 530 Scorp ) and both OPPOSITE mans Nessus (6 Taurus) The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. In our synastry chart we have moon trine pluto and mars square pluto. I cant really relate to Nessus at all, though I sometimes think I can feel BML itching under my skin. "In Greek art Eros was depicted as a winged youth, slight but beautiful, often with eyes covered to symbolize the blindness of love. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. Eros thrills, scares and creates intense bonds. I know our feelings are mutually intense but certainly we experience our relationship from different perspectives. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. It exposes our weaknesses and provides us a chance to deal with them constructively. If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? I know how important moon moon aspects are to you, Venus pluto aspects Pick your top two questions and I will try to help, my Friend! What conjuncts your Aura? Eros in Aries makes a person love the chase. . It always starts this way. Theyre still deeply in love and their synastry and composite charts support it. You may be fated to marry. Dejanira (female) conjunct Saturn (male) tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. It is real to be neutral. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. His touch is all at once sexual, creative and spiritual. . Moon/Pluto in a trine is very powerful, too. Having a planet you have on your 7th house falling on their 1st house and a planet in your 1st house falling on their 7th house and vice-versa which would create an opposite between the two planets in the synastry chart. Have you tried? I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. Yes, astrology charts do show the truth of ones life, but the issue is that YOUR opinions do not equate the truth. For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. This is not dark sexual, per se. or is the bad guy Nessus only dangerous when in conjonction with Dejanira ? It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. We have moons in conjunction in gemini; His venus and mars are in conjunction with my venus in Aquarius. It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life. The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. This vertex conjunction shows up again like in my previous relationship. IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. His ascendant is at 24 Virgo and has 0 Virgo in his 12th house. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. I appreciate your thoughts on these aspects but I am concerned when any astrologer singles out specific aspects and makes sweeping judgements about charts and how the energies in that chart will be made manifest. You can think that Im mad that what youre saying is real all you want, but the only thing that bothered me is your fatalistic outlook and claim of truth that is actually not real. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. Also, It doesnt suit me. It will not heal anyone to tell them that they are wrong when they say that their relationship is healthy and happy even though they have an aspect that you think is destined to be unhealthy. Welcome, Britt. In this video we will discuss the aspects between #Sun and #Eros in a synastry chart in Mix - Eros and Sun in Synastry! How would it play out if my boyfriends Dejanira is conjunct my venus/juno conjunction but my venus/juno is part of a grand trine with my midheaven and also my moon/Bella/mars/pluto conjunction? He has pholus conjunct dejanira, all on my BML exact. I dont know too much about asteroids and wonder if the intense attraction I am feeling will fizzle as quickly as it came about or if it lasting. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. 4. Your feelings are not fact. Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. Where did you get these theories from? Good afternoon, thank you for this article That`s very interesting information. Thats weird. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. Can this aspect be calmed down by a Mars conjunct Saturn contact? What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. xx. It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. Dejanira is the victim asteroid. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. Who would bring who abuse? To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. We have no moon aspects will this help? Thank you Ariel! How will these aspects play out? Does this mean anything? with Dejanira conjunct his natal Saturn, Mars. Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. Thanks! Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? Relationships that provoke her and Eros, although excruciatingly potent at times, serve as a meeting place for both divine figures. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! Thank you, amiann. The conjunction is excact. It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically. Im 30 with a mother that is 32 years older than myself and have never experienced any abuse, and Ive been alive and around my mother long enough to experience it. The year started with powerful and forward thinking energy that will assist in elevating us both spiritually and subconsciously. I read some things. Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. I am for the stark, bare truth cuz that is what heals. Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. Thats why its so weird bc it is a very good longterm relationship. It makes me feel very crazy. If one does not see any abuse when this happens, my opinion would be that they dont know the person enough lol. Yes, I was thinking about this. It creates a synastry energy where all the houses for the whole chart are conjunct to their opposite house in the partner's chart. Does the man walk up to you and tell you that he wants to abuse you because you seem like the perfect victim? I sense Saggi. I could not agree more with this. Thank you Ivs. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that theyre in. Eros is also prominent in their synastry. Connections between the Vertex and the lunar nodes are also indicators of past life in synastry. It may seem challenging but we share many conjunctions and trines/sextiles. Is it relevant? Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. Lilith conjunct Ascendant Amazingly accurate. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. . My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. I hear your concern. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). What about mars, Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo? My Fortuna conjuncts precisely his Dejanira and Moon. I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? I need to put it altogether after several hours of study to answer well. I meant in synastry her saturn conjuct his deja 1 degree, Thats ok. Aww She may ride his case for being a victim like say, get over it etc etc, Pingback: Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing.